Well................ .................... ....

If you are 100% sure that you have not done anything wrong then it sounds like she dunt wanna face you because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings or because she feels guilty about something or both. She might also be frightend of how you might react.

Regardless, you will need to find out why she left... if only for your own peace of mind and so that you can learn from it.

Stay very calm and use your brain rather than your heart!

She has been living in the same house as her ex for 2.5 years and she dunt have kids... so why did she stay there?

Regardless of whether you would want her back, send her a message to say that whatever has happened then you will try to be calm and understanding and you want to talk it through so that you can move on. At least then you won't spend years torturing yourself wondering what went wrong.

Stay cool.

Posted By: Larry Hagman on August 1st 2014 at 11:00:40

Message Thread

why is life so fucking hard... (NCFC) - oh huckerby, Aug 1, 09:50:08
- I have a story recently, and I've just had to accept it.I've no idea what I'll do if I see (NCFC) - pants, Aug 1, 12:25:10
  - Sorry to hear about your old man Pant. (NCFC) - Arizona Bay, Aug 1, 13:37:27
    - on a physical level (NCFC) - pants, Aug 1, 13:46:43
- what's up (n/m) (NCFC) - earlydoors, Aug 1, 09:52:48
- So that you can appreciate the good times (n/m) (NCFC) - Larry Hagman, Aug 1, 09:52:45
- Some good listeners on here if you want to have a rant, mate. (n/m) (NCFC) - norway, Aug 1, 09:52:38
  - no good times... (NCFC) - oh huckerby, Aug 1, 09:57:00
    - I'm afraid that's what 'some' women do (NCFC) - pants, Aug 1, 11:48:59
      - Good point... (NCFC) - Pixelman, Aug 1, 12:17:03
      - You should leave better tips...... (NCFC) - usacanary, Aug 1, 11:58:44
    - Well.................................... .... (NCFC) - Larry Hagman, Aug 1, 11:00:40
      - yea...she has one (NCFC) - oh huckerby, Aug 1, 11:26:52
        
        Sorry, I misread one as none... but... (NCFC) - Larry Hagman, Aug 1, 13:52:31
    - ouch (NCFC) - CWC, Aug 1, 10:55:00
    - been there mate. took me a year to get over it. but you do and you will. (n/m) (NCFC) - Pit, Aug 1, 10:42:13
    - Feel for you... went through something very similar and (NCFC) - Pixelman, Aug 1, 10:15:43
      - What do you think happens? (NCFC) - pants, Aug 1, 12:08:34
    - Blunt answer warning!!! (NCFC) - harry boulders, Aug 1, 10:15:35
      - out of order that hb (n/m) (NCFC) - Pit, Aug 1, 10:40:23
      - Well, blunt is about right. (n/m) (NCFC) - APB, Aug 1, 10:29:33
      - That's just pure conjecture and completely unnecessary. (n/m) (NCFC) - avid_canary, Aug 1, 10:29:15
      - Unnecessary. (n/m) (NCFC) - avenging canary, Aug 1, 10:26:25
      - Nice. (n/m) (NCFC) - lurd, Aug 1, 10:21:36
    - Time. (NCFC) - APB, Aug 1, 10:12:35
      - Yep, forgive, and grow (NCFC) - pants, Aug 1, 12:14:16
    - I'm sorry to hear that mate (NCFC) - Old Man, Aug 1, 10:07:26
    - hang in there buddy, get some quality time with your kids (NCFC) - Mozzer, Aug 1, 10:05:16
    - Good lord, that is very complex! Stay sober and spend time with friends. (NCFC) - trafford_canary, Aug 1, 10:03:44
    - Then you need to try and do something which is almost impossible to consider (NCFC) - norway, Aug 1, 10:02:45
    - Did you do a smell up the USB? (NCFC) - strap_on sally, Aug 1, 10:02:24

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