FAO DiscoDale
I can see Andy has offered specialist advice and you'd be well advised to contact him. But if I can help in any way I'm happy to do so.
In June 2019 my Mum suffered a brain aneurysm. A week later my Dad had a heart attack and died. My Mum was in a coma for several months and their wills (dated 1989) effectively did the same as your Dad's latest will, leaving everything to each other with no thought over what would happen in an emergency.
Heck, the will was so old and so out of date that my brother and I - both in our late 30s at this point - were left to the care of my Aunt!
I had to apply to the Court of Protection for a deputy ship order to allow us to get the probate of my Dad's estate sorted. It took time (even as an emergency application) and lots of form filling - but you will get there in the end.
I wish you and your family all the best - I can only imagine the stress you're under but know you will get there in the end.
Posted By: LincolnshireCanary on July 18th 2025 at 10:36:52
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- Reaching out for care home advice or information. Desperate (General Chat) - DiscoDale, Jul 18, 07:54:11
- No advice to give but every sympathy, one of my sisters has just had a diagnosis today (General Chat) - watfordcanary, Jul 18, 14:16:25
- Wish you all the best. Some great advice in this thread. 💚💛 (n/m) (General Chat) - Boyer, Jul 18, 13:37:46
- Good luck DD. Terrible thing Dementia - recently lost (General Chat) - Pixelman, Jul 18, 12:17:04
- Condolences to you. I heard about your dad at my mum’s funeral last month. (General Chat) - APB, Jul 18, 14:12:00
- sorry to hear ... (General Chat) - Pixelman, Jul 18, 14:27:43
- Condolences to you. I heard about your dad at my mum’s funeral last month. (General Chat) - APB, Jul 18, 14:12:00
- Good luck buddy, some great tips on this thread (n/m) (General Chat) - Old Git, Jul 18, 12:08:44
- I hope you are able to sort things out (General Chat) - camcan, Jul 18, 10:49:24
- FAO DiscoDale (General Chat) - LincolnshireCanary, Jul 18, 10:36:52
- I can't offer anything I'm afraid but I sincerely hope you get this sorted (General Chat) - strap_on sally, Jul 18, 10:08:59
- Good luck, old age is certainly not for the cowardly (General Chat) - paulg, Jul 18, 09:56:15
- Good luck with it all DD (n/m) (General Chat) - shoddy, Jul 18, 09:47:22
- Have you done a smelly up the usb? (General Chat) - Charles21, Jul 18, 09:40:04
- Good luck chap (n/m) (General Chat) - Augustus Pablo, Jul 18, 09:37:40
- 👏 This is the wrath at its best (General Chat) - Nelsons final flanel, Jul 18, 09:16:17
- vmt ^^^ (n/m) (General Chat) - DrDublin, Jul 18, 14:12:21
- I was just going to post the same. (General Chat) - Klobo04, Jul 18, 09:17:42
- Thirded (n/m) (General Chat) - Knitted Jesus, Jul 18, 12:16:10
- You have to do the following: (General Chat) - Tony Martin, Jul 18, 09:12:43
- We've just done a CoP application (General Chat) - Captain Bligh, Jul 18, 11:41:47
- My partners built up a business from nothing based on that (General Chat) - Tony Martin, Jul 18, 12:02:10
- We've just done a CoP application (General Chat) - Captain Bligh, Jul 18, 11:41:47
- Drop me an email - happy to chat on this (General Chat) - AndyVegas, Jul 18, 08:56:25
- 🫡 (General Chat) - Tombs, Jul 18, 09:06:21
- I used James McKenzie for my will. Great service! (n/m) (General Chat) - Wilts, Jul 18, 10:50:35
- Coincidence... (General Chat) - AndyVegas, Jul 18, 15:03:33
- I used James McKenzie for my will. Great service! (n/m) (General Chat) - Wilts, Jul 18, 10:50:35
- 🫡 (General Chat) - Tombs, Jul 18, 09:06:21
- sorry to read about your situation ,and unfortunately can't offer any help or advice ... (General Chat) - ghostof barry butler, Jul 18, 08:43:41
- Has anyone got power of attorney? Has your mother made a will? (General Chat) - APB, Jul 18, 08:43:25
- Is your father lucid? (General Chat) - 51eve, Jul 18, 08:40:40
- first of all... (General Chat) - Tombs, Jul 18, 08:39:01
- Also this above from Tombs! (General Chat) - AndyVegas, Jul 18, 09:03:08
- This ^^^ (n/m) (General Chat) - APB, Jul 18, 08:46:06
- You need specialist advice tbf but is there a Doctor.... (General Chat) - Saucerer, Jul 18, 08:31:36
- Probably worth contacting Age Concern (n/m) (General Chat) - inutero, Jul 18, 08:18:52
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