I know some have suggested avoiding confrontation.....

but my feeling is this has gone on for this long because you have not stood up for yourself and this person thinks they can walk over you.

I would confront the person and (without being rude) tell them you are unhappy with the way you are being treated. I would ask someone you trust to stand with you when you do it in case it becomes a "he said she said"

If that doesn't work then approach HR, if that doesn't work SUE the f**k out of the company, they deserve it.

Posted By: usacanary on September 25th 2017 at 17:23:34

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PM; Pants - HR / Employee Relationships... (General Chat) - Worthing Yellow, Sep 25, 01:25:26
- I know some have suggested avoiding confrontation..... (General Chat) - usacanary, Sep 25, 17:23:34
- PM Pants. Have now read Worthing Yellows input.... (General Chat) - Saucerer, Sep 25, 11:17:43
  - Thanks so much for that, and everyone else. I have a clearer idea of what options I (General Chat) - pants, Sep 25, 14:25:18
    - Glad it was useful. There are no right answers here.... (General Chat) - Saucerer, Sep 25, 17:06:08
    - hire a hitman (n/m) (General Chat) - Jumbo1, Sep 25, 15:02:15
      - I meant hitperson obs! (n/m) (General Chat) - Jumbo1, Sep 25, 15:02:46
        
        Ever seen the film Mr and Mrs Smith? (General Chat) - Saucerer, Sep 25, 16:51:40
        
        Yes, that film was based on The true life story of Mr & Mrs Tomblander (General Chat) - Jumbo1, Sep 25, 19:15:39
- That's a very good point (General Chat) - SimonOTBC, Sep 25, 08:18:29
  - Premature post.... (General Chat) - SimonOTBC, Sep 25, 08:19:36
- I feel exactly the same as you are suggesting (General Chat) - pants, Sep 25, 03:54:19
  - Best of luck pants. All the way from Cancun! Sounds horrible (General Chat) - essexcanaryOTBC, Sep 25, 07:06:34
  - Pants, if yoyu're worried I can chat with my bro. He's nothing to do with... (General Chat) - DrDublin, Sep 25, 04:35:49
  - In other news after this Friday I'm off NINE days (General Chat) - pants, Sep 25, 04:08:43
  - Perhaps keep a journal /diary as a back up if don't trust them,dates,times,places (General Chat) - protheroe fitzgibbon, Sep 25, 04:07:51

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