Thanks so much for that, and everyone else. I have a clearer idea of what options I

Can decide. I didn't think I'd have a open thought process after a couple of messages but everyone's responses have really helped me think a bit clearer.

If I chat to mates, I get this on here too, I've been getting a lot of "I haven't seen what it's like". It's their way of saying they know me and they think there's either more to it, or I've hypersensitised the situation. That's why I was confused, cos I haven't and have blanked out most things said to me.

If anyone's seen it, I just feel like Norman in Bates Motel. This colleague actually likes me, but she just says a lot of s**tty things to everyone, not just me. I'm working with her so it's more often said to me.

I can ride it, and I might carry on. One thing I've taken from this is I very much might revamp the way I work and make sure I don't fall into obvious traps.

I think on some level I might be able to control the situation to an extent. If I can't then I will be back to all these replies and take stock. I think I might make a social trip to hr at some point this week and let them know the story.

Posted By: pants on September 25th 2017 at 14:25:18

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PM; Pants - HR / Employee Relationships... (General Chat) - Worthing Yellow, Sep 25, 01:25:26
- I know some have suggested avoiding confrontation..... (General Chat) - usacanary, Sep 25, 17:23:34
- PM Pants. Have now read Worthing Yellows input.... (General Chat) - Saucerer, Sep 25, 11:17:43
  - Thanks so much for that, and everyone else. I have a clearer idea of what options I (General Chat) - pants, Sep 25, 14:25:18
    - Glad it was useful. There are no right answers here.... (General Chat) - Saucerer, Sep 25, 17:06:08
    - hire a hitman (n/m) (General Chat) - Jumbo1, Sep 25, 15:02:15
      - I meant hitperson obs! (n/m) (General Chat) - Jumbo1, Sep 25, 15:02:46
        
        Ever seen the film Mr and Mrs Smith? (General Chat) - Saucerer, Sep 25, 16:51:40
        
        Yes, that film was based on The true life story of Mr & Mrs Tomblander (General Chat) - Jumbo1, Sep 25, 19:15:39
- That's a very good point (General Chat) - SimonOTBC, Sep 25, 08:18:29
  - Premature post.... (General Chat) - SimonOTBC, Sep 25, 08:19:36
- I feel exactly the same as you are suggesting (General Chat) - pants, Sep 25, 03:54:19
  - Best of luck pants. All the way from Cancun! Sounds horrible (General Chat) - essexcanaryOTBC, Sep 25, 07:06:34
  - Pants, if yoyu're worried I can chat with my bro. He's nothing to do with... (General Chat) - DrDublin, Sep 25, 04:35:49
  - In other news after this Friday I'm off NINE days (General Chat) - pants, Sep 25, 04:08:43
  - Perhaps keep a journal /diary as a back up if don't trust them,dates,times,places (General Chat) - protheroe fitzgibbon, Sep 25, 04:07:51

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