would you rather people were just rude to you?

Massive caveat - you're a nice chap, so I'm not directing this at you, just offering a different perspective. This is more general though:

I'd rather someone was advised/trained whatever on etiquette than have some of the s**tty service that I've experienced recently (local, Seat main dealer being the worst)

When I worked in a supermarket, I was often extra friendly to people who were (or at least who I perceived as rude. It just seemed to wind them up and it's the perfect way to combat people's rudeness.

This is the best thing on customer service that I've read recently and sums up my attitude recently:

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Posted By: scruffy on September 5th 2013 at 13:30:14

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People who say "how are you today" when they're entering your purchases into the till (General Chat) - Old Git, Sep 5, 12:53:59
- So someone being polite and professional annoys you. (General Chat) - usacanary, Sep 5, 15:26:19
  - fake or insincere politeness is a bit OTT at times though tbf (General Chat) - essexcanaryOTBC, Sep 5, 15:30:13
    - on minimum/low wage? It can be too much (General Chat) - scruffy, Sep 5, 16:09:48
      - I agree (General Chat) - essexcanaryOTBC, Sep 5, 16:23:53
- Amuse yourself by telling them something so that they will wish they had never asked (n/m) (General Chat) - Larry Hagman, Sep 5, 13:34:26
  - that's also fun (n/m) (General Chat) - scruffy, Sep 5, 13:56:49
- would you rather people were just rude to you? (General Chat) - scruffy, Sep 5, 13:30:14
  - You can use that ethos for the whole of your life, it works (General Chat) - pants, Sep 5, 14:12:41
    - yep (General Chat) - scruffy, Sep 5, 16:08:07
      - until it doesn't (General Chat) - essexcanaryOTBC, Sep 5, 16:25:14
- Punch them in the face ,then say ,"i'm in a bad mood". (n/m) (General Chat) - protheroe fitzgibbon, Sep 5, 13:24:06
  - while security escort you out of the shop and into the hands of a waiting cop car haha (n/m) (General Chat) - essexcanaryOTBC, Sep 5, 13:26:03
- Guy is ASDA asked me if I was doing anything interesting at the week-end! (General Chat) - BSE Canary, Sep 5, 13:08:46
  - this is also a really good point (General Chat) - scruffy, Sep 5, 13:34:09
- see what happens when you tell them how you actually feel (General Chat) - essexcanaryOTBC, Sep 5, 13:08:27
- I like it. And I like a have a good rest of your day. (General Chat) - BigGrantHolt, Sep 5, 13:00:56
  - i hate "hagroyd" (General Chat) - Tombs, Sep 5, 14:11:18
- For that reason, I say hello first, and therefore you be the person (General Chat) - pants, Sep 5, 13:00:35
  - I always do that!! (General Chat) - Old Git, Sep 5, 13:07:48
    - I use the service a lot these days (General Chat) - pants, Sep 5, 13:35:00
      - self (n/m) (General Chat) - pants, Sep 5, 13:40:35
    - I find it absolutely amazing that (General Chat) - CB41, Sep 5, 13:10:58
- Our equivalent of 2Have a nice day" Probably learn it at Rhyll University on their (General Chat) - CB41, Sep 5, 12:56:34
  - I don't mind "have a nice day" (General Chat) - Old Git, Sep 5, 13:11:24
    - I think I usually labour the hello, like a manc sort of (General Chat) - pants, Sep 5, 14:16:41
    - if you're genuinely not interested in having a conversation (General Chat) - scruffy, Sep 5, 13:55:40
    - You could say "what the fuck's it got to do with you" (n/m) (General Chat) - CB41, Sep 5, 13:18:15
      - better (n/m) (General Chat) - essexcanaryOTBC, Sep 5, 13:25:04
    - yes you can (General Chat) - essexcanaryOTBC, Sep 5, 13:12:14

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