If my bosses don't like the way another colleague is speaking to me
and have been nudging me to raise a complaint
What should I do?
What's your other halves experience of dealing with conflict with employees? I've ignored this person for 17 months even though I get the blame for everything and anything I do or say (social or work relalted is ridiculed). I so far have refused to raise a complaint against her because in my experience HR's let this roll on forever and disciplinaries go on forever (meanwhile I still sit there and have my working misery fourfolded)
Has she got experiences of these things actually working out, or should I just intervene and ask for a desk move (and watch from afar as another employee loses their s**t with her within about 3 weeks nevermind 17 months. That's 17 months and counting cos I don't have a complaint innit)
Posted By: pants on September 24th 2017 at 22:59:09
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- Any HR types kicking about ? (n/m) (General Chat) - pants, Sep 24, 22:26:41
- My wife is and she's sitting next to me, if that helps? (n/m) (General Chat) - SimonOTBC, Sep 24, 22:34:27
- If my bosses don't like the way another colleague is speaking to me (General Chat) - pants, Sep 24, 22:59:09
- All those suggestions you came up with are things a boss should already have (General Chat) - Steve in Holland, Sep 25, 08:09:16
- I moved seats within a few weeks of joining a new company (General Chat) - essexcanaryOTBC, Sep 25, 07:08:33
- My area.....used to deal with these regularly but.... (General Chat) - Saucerer, Sep 24, 23:15:15
- Would probably have unanimous backing on her previous (General Chat) - pants, Sep 24, 23:47:38
- Weak lazy management (General Chat) - Gob on a Stick, Sep 25, 06:23:34
- Dunno about that but they are avoiding responsibility indeed (n/m) (General Chat) - Steve in Holland, Sep 25, 08:09:54
- Weak lazy management (General Chat) - Gob on a Stick, Sep 25, 06:23:34
- Would probably have unanimous backing on her previous (General Chat) - pants, Sep 24, 23:47:38
- This is a peer rather than subordinate or boss? (General Chat) - SimonOTBC, Sep 24, 23:14:11
- Yeah someone on the same level (General Chat) - pants, Sep 24, 23:52:00
- 14 years ago? Same organization? .... (General Chat) - Saucerer, Sep 25, 00:20:45
- Nah, different place (General Chat) - pants, Sep 25, 00:45:09
- 14 years ago? Same organization? .... (General Chat) - Saucerer, Sep 25, 00:20:45
- Yeah someone on the same level (General Chat) - pants, Sep 24, 23:52:00
- If my bosses don't like the way another colleague is speaking to me (General Chat) - pants, Sep 24, 22:59:09
- Harry Redknapps? (n/m) (General Chat) - Trent_Canary, Sep 24, 22:33:46
- My wife is and she's sitting next to me, if that helps? (n/m) (General Chat) - SimonOTBC, Sep 24, 22:34:27
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