It’s clear that you love each other as friends. But now you’ve had sex, you’ve muddied

the waters of your relationship.

I know you want her to choose you over her desire for women. But people can’t change their sexuality.

They can suppress it, but this usually leads to unhappiness.

Even if she decides to be with you, she will still be a lesbian and it is likely to come between you.

If things don’t work out, you could end up losing her as a friend too. Sexual feelings can and do fade.

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good luck and go easy

Posted By: Tombs, Sep 28, 17:21:28

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