how to get over death?

lost my father-in-law on wednesday night very unexpectedly only 59. We did everything and was like my own dad, played snooker every friday, sunday then went back to watch football together. My only real friend up here [north] and i've lost him. My partners in a right mess and as for her mum my heart goes out to her. First close person i've lost in my life, how do you get over something like this? i keep watching videos that we took as a family when we went to scotland and centre parcs. Dont know what to do.

Posted By: Southend Legend, May 7, 19:05:04