A slightly alternative thought

that's been running through my head for a few days.

We often turn to work during tough times and think it's helping us get through, and then suddenly, you realise that you've actually not been really as clear thinking as you might have been, and that the distraction actually wasn't the answer - grief is still there, work has been done but you've not really done as well as you might have done if all had been normal.

Sorry - I'm clearly no expert, but just know how I've been post bereavement - thrown myself into something and then just had those moments of realisation that it's not helping either me, or the people I'm working for. And I've never lost a child. Maybe there's something hitting him that we're not seeing, and maybe he's not seeing it either.

Posted By: camcan on October 23rd 2025 at 16:38:18

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I wish fans wouldn’t keep ignoring the reality about (NCFC) - Chopper, Oct 23, 15:11:44
- A slightly alternative thought (NCFC) - camcan, Oct 23, 16:38:18
  - Yeah I've had a similar thought. Such as massive, terrible thing to go through (NCFC) - Knitted Jesus, Oct 23, 17:07:58
  - Cracking post, that must be a factor (n/m) (NCFC) - strap_on sally, Oct 23, 16:55:25
    - albeit not a reason not to sack him (n/m) (NCFC) - paulg, Oct 23, 17:33:42
- The longer it goes on for.. (NCFC) - Goosebumps, Oct 23, 15:32:39
  - Manning must have promised in the interview to get us out of this division at the end of s (n/m) (NCFC) - MORDENCANARY, Oct 23, 16:19:43
  - I’d take Warnock 100% (n/m) (NCFC) - Biggles, Oct 23, 15:37:52
- I just don’t buy that (NCFC) - Duck, Oct 23, 15:21:48
  - Were you happy with the squad we started with? (NCFC) - Chopper, Oct 23, 17:53:24
  - everyone has a ceiling tho (NCFC) - CWC, Oct 23, 17:01:15
  - Well from everything i've seen. He a really, really sh*t coach (n/m) (NCFC) - Jim, Oct 23, 16:00:44
    - If we’d appointed Wilshire and were in this position I’d say fair enough (NCFC) - Duck, Oct 23, 16:14:25
      - They weren’t though (NCFC) - Ulf jr, Oct 23, 16:37:42
        
        I think it was more mixed than that tbf (NCFC) - computer, Oct 23, 16:51:51
      - Does anyone think a new manager will turn us into a top 6 side? (NCFC) - jamesward, Oct 23, 16:24:49
  - Only been head-hunted twice? (NCFC) - jamesward, Oct 23, 15:29:00
  - Could well be the case (NCFC) - Ghost Ship Belly, Oct 23, 15:28:49

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