Good self knowledge

When I'm mediating this stuff the hardest thing to get people to understand is that the person on the other side (the purported victim, the purported bully) will see what happened completely differently.

My role requires me to be impartial (trained to be so).

Ultimately, whether people are badged insensitive/oversensitive what everyone should really be shooting for is an environment in which someone can say "I'm not okay with that" (in either direction) and saying that is not viewed as an aggressive act.

As I said. It's complex stuff.

If you've found a way of dealing with it, that you're comfy with, then cool.

Posted By: Cardiff Canary on February 16th 2020 at 13:41:26

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RIp Caroline Flack criticism or cps seems unfair though ... (General Chat) - loz, Feb 16, 09:25:45
- Complex issues (General Chat) - Cardiff Canary, Feb 16, 10:53:45
  - Great post CC (General Chat) - Agatha Fisty, Feb 16, 12:47:47
    - People, on the whole, are decent (General Chat) - Cardiff Canary, Feb 16, 13:19:10
      - Good advice (General Chat) - Agatha Fisty, Feb 16, 13:28:18
        
        Good self knowledge (General Chat) - Cardiff Canary, Feb 16, 13:41:26
        
        The stigma will always be that im a man (General Chat) - Agatha Fisty, Feb 16, 13:49:14
        
        The journal is a good option if you're worried (General Chat) - Cardiff Canary, Feb 16, 13:57:18
        
        They say you should pick your battles. (General Chat) - Agatha Fisty, Feb 16, 14:02:03
        
        Hmmmm..... (General Chat) - Cardiff Canary, Feb 16, 14:10:49
        
        Yeah no worries. Good chat (n/m) (General Chat) - Agatha Fisty, Feb 16, 14:14:32
        
        On the flip side (General Chat) - Agatha Fisty, Feb 16, 13:36:35
        
        Not good in a workplace (General Chat) - Cardiff Canary, Feb 16, 13:48:38
        
        Yeah that's true, ive seen people get it eventually. (General Chat) - Agatha Fisty, Feb 16, 13:52:06
        
        Not amazingly (General Chat) - Cardiff Canary, Feb 16, 14:00:15
        
        To bring this back round to Flack (General Chat) - Agatha Fisty, Feb 16, 13:55:39
- a barrister tweets: (General Chat) - Ralf Scrampton, Feb 16, 10:26:21
  - This (been biting my lip the last 12 hours plus) (n/m) (General Chat) - Agatha Fisty, Feb 16, 11:30:45
  - I recently finished The Secret Barrister's book, found it very interesting. (n/m) (General Chat) - WestYorksCanary, Feb 16, 10:37:28
- Yes. Legitimate questions about whether the media were over the top (General Chat) - Jim, Feb 16, 09:41:01
  - With male suicide being at a ratio of 4:1 and nearly 6000 suicides a year (General Chat) - Agatha Fisty, Feb 16, 11:35:29
- Absolutely... (General Chat) - Alan, Feb 16, 09:34:09

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