Sorry to hear that Bertie old chap
I understand from Mrs Git (who works in this field) that there's a fairly uniform pattern of shock, hurt, loss, anger, hit the bottom, small green shoots, hope, acceptance, moving on (or something like that). It's an inverted bell curve.
May I offer one serious piece of advice? Sort out the parting of ways through a family law mediator, not through a solicitor. A good mediator will help you reach a proper resolution at 10% or less of the ???? and 5% or less of the acrimony.
Posted By: Old Git on September 10th 2015 at 18:50:37
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- Divorcees out there..... (General Chat) - Bertie Bertschin, Sep 10, 16:28:49
- Best thing that ever happened to me! (General Chat) - LeftSide, Sep 11, 00:32:06
- sorry to hear Bertie - it takes time,but it does (General Chat) - Mozzer, Sep 10, 19:28:57
- It does (n/m) (General Chat) - matgore, Sep 10, 19:15:22
- Really sorry to hear this mate (General Chat) - Old Man, Sep 10, 19:06:53
- Sorry to hear that Bertie old chap (General Chat) - Old Git, Sep 10, 18:50:37
- Strongly back the mediator advice (General Chat) - Cardiff Canary, Sep 10, 18:59:07
- Yes, that and a good hitman (General Chat) - Cheltenham_Canary, Sep 10, 19:07:04
- I have a quadcopter could probably strap some tnt to it. (n/m) (General Chat) - Men without hats, Sep 10, 19:19:36
- Yes, that and a good hitman (General Chat) - Cheltenham_Canary, Sep 10, 19:07:04
- Strongly back the mediator advice (General Chat) - Cardiff Canary, Sep 10, 18:59:07
- Sorry to hear that Bertie. Hope things settle down soon. Keep taking one day at a time (General Chat) - Bravo win or die, Sep 10, 18:31:20
- Yup - gets easier.... (General Chat) - Cheltenham_Canary, Sep 10, 18:14:17
- Yes, it gets better.... (General Chat) - Oscarnary, Sep 10, 20:27:54
- I think mine settled after about 14 years, but I think it depends on what your ex is like (General Chat) - shortfatb, Sep 10, 18:13:05
- no Mary option then? (General Chat) - Jumbo1, Sep 10, 16:40:43
- Yep, it gets much easier (General Chat) - Cardiff Canary, Sep 10, 16:37:06
- Yep ... 5 years is the mark (General Chat) - Gob on a Stick, Sep 10, 22:03:52
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