yep, like many, read it and it brought a tear to my eye...
Lost my dad to alzheimers some 5yrs ago now.... although he was from kent and a gillingham fan, he followed norwich since moving to norwich to help form anglia tv in the 1950's.... he was a friend of david frost and they used to sing on t he ball city together on the train to london and also at parties!
It was dad who took me to carra and got me into city.... early memories includ lots of boxing day matches v ipswich, and being in the anglia exec box when norqich played liverpooll and fash scored 'that' goal.
In 85 wr arranged a weekend in london for the milk cup final for my mum and me, staying in the bayswater hotel, same hotel as the team!!! Was amazing!!
Of course by my teens I was going to matches with my mates....my dad came with me on my first club cabbage trip to everton (1-1 with dennis van wyk making his debut!) Just to suss out the arrangments/security etc etc.... duncan forbes was a friend of my dad and promised to watch me for all future trips to make sure I got into no mischief!!
In my dads older years he stopped going, though whilst I was in the falklands in 93 he que'd for 7 hrs to get me an inter milan ticket as a welcome home present. He got one ticket, gave it to me. That ticket is framed and still on the wall!
Before he was really sick, I paid for and treated both my mum and dad to tickets to see city play gillingham, his original club. I plyed them both with whiskey/wine in the pub before hand whilst my dad connected with gills fans......it was clear his loyaltys were divided.....though he cheered city to 2-0 win....
That was his last match. Alzheimers took 8 yrs to kill him. I have no f**king idea how norwich were getting on in April 08 when he finally lost his battle. Some of you may remember me posting about it, some may also remember the obituary in the edp een I posted the link to. I was really cut up. My marriage had ended on the thursday my dad died the next day. I managed to race bqck to norwich and was with him when he died at the uni hospital in norwich.
In exactly 7 days I re-marry. I've never been happier. City are in the best shape Iin my lifetime. The good times are back, not just for city but for me personally. Tho next week I shall shed a tear or two wishing my dad, a gills fan, could be a part it.
C/c xxx
Posted By: Cheltenham_Canary on August 24th 2013 at 08:37:52
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- Great thread on NCFC supporting family members yesterday, (General Chat) - I Am Hoot, Aug 24, 01:42:39
- My Dad was dying of cancer at home-- (General Chat) - willy the pimp, Aug 24, 11:06:55
- theres.... (General Chat) - Cheltenham_Canary, Aug 24, 11:10:53
- Well - a genuinely moving thread (General Chat) - norway, Aug 24, 10:24:41
- another reason why as city fans it might make sense to try to enjoy (General Chat) - essexcanaryOTBC, Aug 24, 11:09:51
- yep, like many, read it and it brought a tear to my eye... (General Chat) - Cheltenham_Canary, Aug 24, 08:37:52
- really nice story chelts (General Chat) - essexcanaryOTBC, Aug 24, 09:22:04
- many thanks mate! (General Chat) - Cheltenham_Canary, Aug 24, 09:28:50
- definitely (General Chat) - essexcanaryOTBC, Aug 24, 09:34:17
- cheers bruv! (n/m) (General Chat) - Cheltenham_Canary, Aug 24, 09:39:23
- definitely (General Chat) - essexcanaryOTBC, Aug 24, 09:34:17
- many thanks mate! (General Chat) - Cheltenham_Canary, Aug 24, 09:28:50
- have a great day next week chelters,and best of luck for the future. (n/m) (General Chat) - protheroe fitzgibbon, Aug 24, 09:02:19
- thanks proth xxx (n/m) (General Chat) - Cheltenham_Canary, Aug 24, 09:08:32
- Good luck to you next week Chelts! (n/m) (General Chat) - Bravo win or die, Aug 24, 08:51:08
- Allthe best for next week, have a great day ! (n/m) (General Chat) - Coventry Yellow, Aug 24, 11:12:48
- I hope your first dance is going to be to the OTBC song (General Chat) - essexcanaryOTBC, Aug 24, 11:15:00
- haha! enough norwich mates there to sing it! (n/m) (General Chat) - Cheltenham_Canary, Aug 24, 11:31:24
- might get away with it being your second song then ;) (n/m) (General Chat) - essexcanaryOTBC, Aug 24, 11:31:57
- haha! enough norwich mates there to sing it! (n/m) (General Chat) - Cheltenham_Canary, Aug 24, 11:31:24
- I hope your first dance is going to be to the OTBC song (General Chat) - essexcanaryOTBC, Aug 24, 11:15:00
- thanks bwod xx (n/m) (General Chat) - Cheltenham_Canary, Aug 24, 08:58:08
- Allthe best for next week, have a great day ! (n/m) (General Chat) - Coventry Yellow, Aug 24, 11:12:48
- Nice one mate, I hope you and J have a great day! (n/m) (General Chat) - I Am Hoot, Aug 24, 08:47:28
- thanks mate x (n/m) (General Chat) - Cheltenham_Canary, Aug 24, 08:50:53
- really nice story chelts (General Chat) - essexcanaryOTBC, Aug 24, 09:22:04
- My lovely mum died getting on for a year and a half ago. I'd got to the point where I (General Chat) - Bravo win or die, Aug 24, 07:56:57
- indeed (n/m) (General Chat) - essexcanaryOTBC, Aug 24, 09:40:00
- in (n/m) (General Chat) - essexcanaryOTBC, Aug 24, 09:36:01
- well said iah. (n/m) (General Chat) - protheroe fitzgibbon, Aug 24, 01:49:41
- My Dad was dying of cancer at home-- (General Chat) - willy the pimp, Aug 24, 11:06:55
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