I've just caught up on this
Well done for having the courage to hold your hands up and admit you were over the line. I don't think it was the reference to anal sex that was the issue - hardly an uncommon thing to find on here - but the thought that to get over frustration men would shove it up their wife's back passage without consultation let alone consent. That may well not be what you meant but it was the way it read, at least to me and it seems to others too.
As Frank Luntz says, it's not what you say that counts, it's what other people hear.
I don't think you need to stop posting - we've all overstepped the mark in various ways in different places (certainly not just online!), and the important thing is to learn from it and move on. I can think of plenty who'd not even acknowledge their error so well done for the way you've come at this (no pun intended) this morning.
Posted By: Old Man on April 14th 2013 at 10:44:56
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- FAO King and a few others (General Chat) - BINMEN8R, Apr 14, 09:56:46
- a massive overreaction to a nonsense post (General Chat) - shoddy, Apr 14, 11:02:59
- Hitler was worse than Thatcher - that doesn't make Thatcher right. (General Chat) - HairyBobbingManAss, Apr 14, 11:10:23
- Hitler was worse than pretty much evryone. is he the yardstick by which we're now judging? (General Chat) - avid_canary, Apr 14, 11:20:05
- Eactly the point, Godwins law and all that - I wasn't making a serious point. (n/m) (General Chat) - HairyBobbingManAss, Apr 14, 11:22:46
- Blair was worse than Thatcher. (n/m) (General Chat) - phrankin, Apr 14, 11:11:10
- Hitler was worse than pretty much evryone. is he the yardstick by which we're now judging? (General Chat) - avid_canary, Apr 14, 11:20:05
- Hitler was worse than Thatcher - that doesn't make Thatcher right. (General Chat) - HairyBobbingManAss, Apr 14, 11:10:23
- Binman8R.....incredible over reaction from the wrath! Wowsers. (n/m) (General Chat) - admckechnie, Apr 14, 10:48:23
- I've just caught up on this (General Chat) - Old Man, Apr 14, 10:44:56
- Because you know, when men talk about having sexual relations with their partner (General Chat) - phrankin, Apr 14, 11:04:48
- goody, I'm not the only bed wetter this morning then. (n/m) (General Chat) - HairyBobbingManAss, Apr 14, 10:49:24
- I never said we were getting relegated (n/m) (General Chat) - Old Man, Apr 14, 10:53:05
- Seen far worse on here. (n/m) (General Chat) - phrankin, Apr 14, 10:36:47
- You've had the decency to apologise. I think we can appreciate it was a misjudged comment (General Chat) - avid_canary, Apr 14, 10:32:17
- I don't think it was the reference to 'naughty sex' that people found offensive.... (General Chat) - HairyBobbingManAss, Apr 14, 10:06:07
- How on earth was he casually encouraging anal rape??? (General Chat) - RootunTootunHootun, Apr 14, 10:27:51
- Oh, have I got my posts mixed up? (General Chat) - HairyBobbingManAss, Apr 14, 10:29:09
- No, I haven't, how on earth is this not doing just that? (General Chat) - HairyBobbingManAss, Apr 14, 10:30:20
- Not singling you out, but I honestly can't see how anyone can say he's (General Chat) - RootunTootunHootun, Apr 14, 10:38:39
- Hey, it might just be me being over sensitive. (General Chat) - HairyBobbingManAss, Apr 14, 10:42:33
- why should the 'mention of bum sex' offend people... (General Chat) - phrankin, Apr 14, 10:55:11
- Why would that make them homophobes? (General Chat) - HairyBobbingManAss, Apr 14, 11:00:47
- I mean, he was clearly talking about doing it to a woman (General Chat) - HairyBobbingManAss, Apr 14, 11:02:13
- So people differentiate between bum sex with women and men? (n/m) (General Chat) - phrankin, Apr 14, 11:03:21
- One bad... One good? (n/m) (General Chat) - phrankin, Apr 14, 11:03:44
- Some people do (n/m) (General Chat) - HairyBobbingManAss, Apr 14, 11:26:37
- Why should we worrry about what they think. (General Chat) - phrankin, Apr 14, 11:28:09
- Some people do (n/m) (General Chat) - HairyBobbingManAss, Apr 14, 11:26:37
- One bad... One good? (n/m) (General Chat) - phrankin, Apr 14, 11:03:44
- So people differentiate between bum sex with women and men? (n/m) (General Chat) - phrankin, Apr 14, 11:03:21
- I mean, he was clearly talking about doing it to a woman (General Chat) - HairyBobbingManAss, Apr 14, 11:02:13
- Why would that make them homophobes? (General Chat) - HairyBobbingManAss, Apr 14, 11:00:47
- why should the 'mention of bum sex' offend people... (General Chat) - phrankin, Apr 14, 10:55:11
- Hey, it might just be me being over sensitive. (General Chat) - HairyBobbingManAss, Apr 14, 10:42:33
- Hairy what do you want me to say? (General Chat) - BINMEN8R, Apr 14, 10:36:04
- I wasn't offended by it, but I can see why people would be. (General Chat) - HairyBobbingManAss, Apr 14, 10:37:42
- "Don't even spit on it" (General Chat) - Charles21, Apr 14, 10:58:53
- Lol....so it's okay if one spits on it first? (n/m) (General Chat) - BINMEN8R, Apr 14, 10:38:57
- sounds like it..... You couldn't make it up... (n/m) (General Chat) - phrankin, Apr 14, 11:12:05
- I wasn't offended by it, but I can see why people would be. (General Chat) - HairyBobbingManAss, Apr 14, 10:37:42
- seeing what you want to see I think.... (n/m) (General Chat) - phrankin, Apr 14, 10:35:49
- Not singling you out, but I honestly can't see how anyone can say he's (General Chat) - RootunTootunHootun, Apr 14, 10:38:39
- No, I haven't, how on earth is this not doing just that? (General Chat) - HairyBobbingManAss, Apr 14, 10:30:20
- Oh, have I got my posts mixed up? (General Chat) - HairyBobbingManAss, Apr 14, 10:29:09
- I would never encourage that EVER! (General Chat) - BINMEN8R, Apr 14, 10:09:12
- How on earth was he casually encouraging anal rape??? (General Chat) - RootunTootunHootun, Apr 14, 10:27:51
- Bye (n/m) (General Chat) - asics_kit, Apr 14, 09:59:39
- a massive overreaction to a nonsense post (General Chat) - shoddy, Apr 14, 11:02:59
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