Having just divorced and remarried

with 2 kids (late teens when we split) I have to say something on behalf of your dad. Without going into specifics, it can be very hard to wake up every day knowing that you will spend the rest of your life alone, especially after you have been married once. My kids were a worry to me too, but both accepted that I have found happiness again - they can see what I love in my new wife and get on so well with her it makes me proud.
There are some minefields to cross (inheritances, for instance) as she is much younger than me. I will try to work out something equitable to all, but that is my problem.
You never know who you will meet in life, when, and what effect they will have on you. I hope it works out for you, from your posts you seem very bitter, but that is no way to live your life. All I can do is wish you good luck and trust you can see this from your dad's side too.

Posted By: Cannydc, Mar 31, 07:41:00