Here's where you're going wrong

"im so honest with him about how i feel"

He's a bloke. He doesn't really want to know how you feel. Telling him how you feel probably (a) bores him (b) scares him and (c) makes him feel you are too heavy. I know your girlfriends all like to know how they feel and to hear how you feel, but he isn't a girl, he's a bloke. He has a totally different set of values and communications attitudes.

You need to read Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus to get an idea about just how different men are from women and how differently men communicate.

You also need to learn how to give better blow jobs, but that's another story.

Posted By: Chocolate Warrior, Jun 15, 23:00:40