you need to figure out a coping mechanism that works for you

i managed to come to terms with it by appreciating that carsley was intrinsically a good person at heart and didn't want to offend the irish given the complex political history between the two countries and what with him having a foot in both camps. personally i reached a situation that helped me cope by convincing myself that carsley paid his respects to the monarch by internally humming along.

literally nobody in the crowd or watching on tv would have noticed, not even lip readers. bloke is a f**king genius.

also, saved myself a proper f**ktonne of money avoiding therapy.

Posted By: Tombs, Sep 9, 21:11:45