This. Hopefully it was all just a misunderstanding

though he shouldn't have been able to access a power tool regardless (all mine are locked away, only Old Woman and I have access).

What was your ex's reaction? If she was horrified too that's one thing. If it wasn't a misunderstanding, the tool really was his, and she thinks that's OK, well, it isn't.

I agree that kids are mollycoddled far too much these days but that's way over any kind of acceptable line in terms of safeguarding. I think it would be reasonable to ask what steps are taken to ensure your son's safety in your absence.

Posted By: Old Man, Feb 22, 13:28:52