Her reaction is very unstandable. There's actually no such thing as privacy

Also, the more important a death experience is, the more you actually feel like you have to 'perform' in front of people

The 2 merge quite badly, and seeing as it's only 2 months on, her anger in grief is still alive and well

She hasn't really broken a taboo, she's just gone public with something everybody feels, but probably finds solace somewhere in relating with very close friends to help them through

It's not embarrassing what she's done, but it really won't help her in any way either. Even if the message is well received by the people that visited, she's only going to get even more condescending visitors and cards apologising.

Her anger will then escalate further

Sad

Posted By: pants, Oct 10, 13:29:51