I'd adapt your friendship if you can

I'd do things with him that don't involve him drinking or being on drugs

That way you're not encouraging him, but sub-conciously, if you're sat in a coffee shop with him on a Saturday lunchtime, instead of night time, he'll work out that you don't approve, but will respect that you still want to know him without judging him

If your the guy who's never said anything, but has been around, you'll be the guy he'll go to when he needs help. If he gets it, and recovers, you'll be the guy he thinks the most of in life, cos you didn't give up

Posted By: pants, Oct 12, 15:27:20