Can see why there aren't many answers, too many processes going on

in your world, and hers

The obvious answer everyone's going to say is talk to her. Probably dodge asking why she did it. Maybe more towards "do you regret it?" "do you want to be with me?" "is there something I don't do day to day that makes you take your eyes off the prize?" (that ones probably for you to think deeper about)

I suppose the best advice is to not use this now, or in future as something to get the upper hand, it'll work a few times for you to get your own way, but it will definintely finish off what you have

Sounds bloody horrible though. As much as the above is probably very difficult to do at the moment, you might benefit from looking back and trying to remember every little thing you've clashed over (write it down maybe)

Have you not spotted that she's had the worst week ever, and you didnt notice. Has this happened to you with her?

You should use this, as an opportunity to peel back layers and find out if you're both meant to be.

Off tangent, say we're mates, and I've just clobbered you by accident with a cricket bat. You're on the floor, I'm saying sorry, you eventually get up. I say "hit me with the cricket bat, and then I know what it's like, go on". You can't do it, but you eventually appreciate that the other person isn't just sorry, they want to know feel how bad it is for you in order for you 2 to go back to playing, talking about Mass Effect etc etc

As much as you've been wronged here, this is the way to sort it out really. Find out what you did as well

If she's just not worth all that, and is shallow, then you know the answer

Posted By: pants on February 29th 2012 at 09:35:02

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